Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Birthday Reflections - My 100th Post!

I had a birthday last week - but how can that be?  I just had one!  The saying that time goes by faster as you get older is so true.  When I was in elementary school, summer seemed to go on forever, and even when I taught school, the year seemed so long!  This is me in third grade - seems like just yesterday!

School days that lasted forever suddenly seemed to go by much faster.  This is me, posing with my mom, at my college graduation.  How can I now have two daughters in college?

This is my best friend, Beth, whom I have known since we were both 15.  We met in French I class and have been fast friends ever since.  This is the two of us in our late 20's.  That was just the other day!  How can this be?

Beth and I have remained friends for many years.  It's funny that we both ended up in Arizona!  Here is a picture of the two of us last fall.

But now time is whizzing by at an alarming rate.  I can't believe I have all of these large and grown-up children when it was just yesterday that I was immersed in diapers and toddlers and beginning to homeschool!!

Courtney was our first born and yes, she was our guinea pig in many areas.  Even though she is now 23, she will always be about this age in my mind - eleven years old.  Maybe because I taught fifth grade for so many years I am really partial to this particular age.  This is the girl who LOVED school and her favorite day of the year (other than birthday and Christmas) was when the new year's schoolbooks arrived at the house!

And now she is this beautiful young woman, living on the other side of the country, and thriving in the college experience!  What happened to my baby girl????

And then comes Rachel, who was such a needy little girl, and so different than her big sister in many ways! She was full of spunk and creativity and desperately wanted to play the violin as she grew older.

So here she is - beautiful and almost 21 - and thriving with her music.  She helps in leading
 worship at a church in Tucson and is studying to be a nurse.  How can this be?  She's still my little baby girl!!!  

Then came Jonathan, our first son, and we learned immediately - like in the first 24 hours of his life - that raising a son would be drastically different that raising two sweet little girls.  He was a delight, a snuggler, the one who got my curls - when his hair got too long.

He was artistic at an early age and even started his own "art gallery".  He still enjoys drawing and showed us some of his pictures that he had drawn at Basic Training.  He's got talent for sure.  So how can this snuggly little boy be 19 and in the Army and................going to GERMANY for two years?????

Then came David - our first adoption experience.  He was easy going and fit right in with the family.  He has been interested in all things military since he was a small boy.  We'll see where this takes him in the future!

So now I have this son who is 5'10" and towers over me.  How did this happen?  Now he is playing high school sports and has this very deep voice.  He was just a little boy.............

So life went on for our family, much as we thought it always would.  I was "Mom" and could solve just about everything.  I was their teacher and they needed me every single day. The years passed......

We had more birthdays..............

My parents came to visit from Florida each year...........

Joe's mom, Janet, came to visit from North Carolina...........

We faithfully participated in AWANA.................What happened to all that dark hair on my dear husband?

And even though the children grew and got older each year, they were still children.  

Then we had our first big China experience to bring two year old Isaac home.  Our family expanded, and my time continued to be consumed by this terrified and neglected little boy. This is the little boy who half woke up at night screaming in terror.  He became hysterical when he saw a raw potato (thinking they were rats). He needed parents so badly.

But as time passed, even Isaac grew and matured.  He's now learning to read and no longer has that "baby" look about him.  He's been with us four years - how can that be?  He is an incredibly happy boy and yes, he LOVES potatoes.................

Two year old Joshua came next and added more fun to the group.  He would have nothing to do with me when we were in China and my concerns were great regarding him.. Would he ever accept me as his mother?

But time passed - almost three years - and he is my biggest snuggler.  He is precise in his schoolwork and can play by himself for hours, totally entertained.  He is almost six years old - how can this be?  We were just in China!

We are back in AWANA - round two!  The songs, the lessons, the organization is all so familiar.  Wasn't it just last week that the older ones were getting ready each Wednesday?

Instead of a chaotic household of eight people, we are down to the four of us - most of the time. Rachel and David come and go, depending on school and work schedules. Families we knew in the early years have children that are getting married, beginning careers, and starting new families.   Many of the friends that were in a "young mothers' Bible study" with me are now grandmothers themselves.  How can this be?

The Bible says that life is a vapor.  James 4:14 - "....whereas you don't know what will happen tomorrow.  For what is your life?  It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away." (NKJV)

I don't know how many birthdays I have left.  I would love to live to a ripe old age of 92, but nothing is guaranteed.  I am so grateful for the life I have been given - a wonderful childhoold with fabulous parents, a loving husband, six unique children that are very much loved.   I have been blessed..........very blessed.  I don't know what the future holds, but I look expectantly to the future.......MY future, and I am grateful!


  1. What a lovely review of your life! The pictures are so cute. I hope to see y'all at church this Sunday. :)

  2. My dearly beloved wife -- thanks for taking the time to record our family life on the blog and in particular, for sharing your perspective. I agree that God has blessed us in so many ways. Sometimes up and sometimes down, but always with a deep and abiding assurance that my Savior Jesus the Christ is with us.